Every time I see you, your hair is different.

Hey Roadtripper!

Aight Girl, let me spill some tea about what went down at work this week. Imagine this: I'm grinding away at my part-time hustle, doing my thing, when a co-worker I hardly see decides to strike up a convo. Now, you know me—I'm all about the chit-chat once I vibe with someone, so I'm down for a chat. But then, out of the blue, they hit me with this line I've heard too many times: "Every time I see you, your hair is different."

I let out a little laugh and casually mention that I like to switch up my hairstyles. I didn't feel like diving into it with someone I barely know. But it got me thinking, you know? Does everyone get this line, or just women like me? What's the real deal behind a comment like that? 'Cause let's keep it real—I'm a proud Black woman who loves embracing new hairstyles because, well, it's just part of my vibe.

Now, let's break down those hairstyles for my allies who maybe reading this. Here's why Black women switch it up:

✨ Cornrows: These are OG, deeply rooted in our culture. They're not just a hairstyle; they're a symbol of our heritage and pride.

✨Natural 4C: Ah, the classic black girl wash and go! It's more than just hair—it's a bold statement of embracing our natural beauty and roots.

✨ Braids: Whether it's box braids, twists, or goddess braids, they're versatile and chic. It's not just about looks; it's about expressing our creativity.

✨ Slicked-Back Ponytail: Sometimes, we opt for a sleek ponytail for that boss babe vibe. It's all about versatility, honey!

✨ Wig or Weave: And let's not forget wigs and weaves! Sometimes, we want to switch it up without commitment. They give us the freedom to rock different styles, from long to short, without the drama.

So, next time you see me—or any other Black woman—with a new 'do, feel free to ask or drop a compliment. Let's celebrate the beauty and diversity of Black women's hairstyles together! 

This is your Friday Traffic Talk...now excuse me while I play "I'm not my Hair" by India Arie. Catch you next week same time same place!

🖤✨

Coach C